Each year millions of children suffer because they live in homes where violence runs ramped. Constantly seeing violence among family members can have an overwhelming affect on a child. Too often children are the direct targets when violence lives at home. Some violence occurs very subtly like constantly watch it on a television show while other types of violence erupt any time siblings are within striking distance. Violence isn't limited parents who actions have the most affect on children but can be a trusted child- care provider, relative, or the neighborhood kids. Regardless of what causes it when children repeatedly experience violence they learn all about it. Review some key questions that can help you to begin taking steps to prevent violence in your home.

Q/A

What type of child is more likely to be the target for violence?

• Violence affect children of every income level, social background and race. It doesn't discriminate but studies show children with behavioral disabilities are usually the targets of physical violence while children with physical disabilities are more often the victims of neglect.
  

Are there signs that can indicate if my children is seeing or experiencing too much violence?

• Children who live with danger may feel like a referee or protector of their family.
  
• Cry constantly, stiffen when held, lash-out at others, or children may stutter.
  
• They may have a love/hate relationship with others or with a certain person.
  
• Children may mimic the violence they see and consider it as normal.
  
• Children may be overly fearful, extremely tense or often confused when it comes to getting along with others.
  
• Children sometimes isolate themselves from others or experience regressed behavior(s) such as baby talk, stop using the potty, bedwetting etc.
  

Are there some answers to help parents stop violence in their homes?

• Seek out positive role models in your family, friends or community that live with out violence.
  
• Parent Education can help parents realize personality traits and get family support.
  
• Set clear limits and a way out of violent interactions in the home.
  
• Plan ways to reduce stress and get support from other.
  
• Set-up safe places to go and how to get professional help if it is needed.
  
• Be a model to your child of how to control your temper and handle stress.
  
• Reduce the violence your child watches on television, in music, or in games.
  
• Don't encourage your child to fight with others but teach him or her how to seek help instead of biting or hitting others.
  

Where can I get more information and support?

• Boys Town National Hotline
  1-800-448-3000
  
  
• Childhelp USA National Child Abuse Hotline
  1-800-422-2253