Social Skill 13: Listening to Others

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When someone is speaking, you should:

1. Look at the person who is talking.
2. Sit or stand quietly.
3. Wait until the person is through talking. Don’t interrupt; it will seem like you’re being rude or aren’t interested in what is being said.
4. Show that you understand. Say, “Okay,” “Thanks,” “I see,” etc., or ask the person to explain if you don’t understand.

Reasons for using the skill, Listening to Others: It is important to listen because it shows you are polite, pleasant, and cooperative. It increases the chances that people will listen to you. And, listening well helps you do the correct thing since you are more likely to understand what the other person has said.

• If you are having trouble listening, think of how you would feel if other people didn’t listen to you.
• Try to remember everything the person said. If you are going to need the information later, write it down.
• People who learn to listen well do better on jobs and in school.
• Don’t use any negative facial expressions. Continue looking at the other person, and nod your head or occasionally say something to let the other person know you are still listening.

Social Skill 14: Being Honest