​PREPARING CHILDREN FOR REAL-LIFE SITUATIONS

One of the most important character traits parents ​can teach their children is responsibility. Responsibility is a complex virtue, though, and it takes a lot of time, patience and practice to acquire it. Responsibility is crucial because life is full of choices, and these choices have consequences, both good and bad.

Parents must address 12 major concepts when teaching their children to become responsible individuals:

1. Be accountable. Responsible people accept moral responsibility for their attitudes, words and actions. This requires individuals to reflect on their choices — to think beyond immediate gratification by considering how choices today will affect life in the future.
2. Exercise self-control. Self-control is the ability to manage powerful emotions and appetites. How we respond to these feelings determines whether we are responsible or reckless.
3. Plan and set goals. People who live their lives more purposefully instead of just “going with the flow” are more likely to eventually get what they want.
4. Choose positive attitudes. Responsible people accept control over their own emotions, and thus, their happiness. They choose positive attitudes, such as cheerfulness, enthusiasm and generosity.
5. Do your best. Responsible people strive to do their best in all situations. They take pride in their work and in their relationships.
6. Follow through. Responsible people complete tasks and commitments. They understand the importance of keeping their promises.
7. Be respectful. Responsible individuals treat others with respect and kindness.
8. Be honest. Honesty is a key component of responsibility. Responsible people are truthful in their words and actions.
9. Be reliable. Responsible people can be counted on to do what they say they will do.
10. Be a good citizen. Responsible individuals contribute to their communities and help others.
11. Learn from mistakes. Responsible people understand that everyone makes mistakes and learn from them.
12. Practice empathy. Responsible individuals are able to put themselves in others' shoes and understand their feelings.