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How to Give Clear Instructions to Children

Does getting your child to do something feel like an impossible task? One reason may be the way you're giving an instruction. Children often need clear and concise directions to understand what is expected of them.

Effective Strategies for Clear Instructions

Giving Clear Instructions to Children

Children are not necessarily receptive to the types of verbal instruction we use with adults. Instructions for children must be given so they can clearly understand what you want them to do. Here are some helpful hints on how to give kids instructions that will make you and your child more successful:

  • Get your child's attention
  • Be clear and concise
  • Give one instruction at a time
  • Be positive
  • Don't ask, tell
  • Reward compliance
  • “Please put your shoes on.”
  • “Can you help me set the table?”
  • “Time to brush your teeth.”
  • “Please pick up your toys.”
  • “Let’s get ready for bed.”
  • “Please wash your hands before dinner.”
  • “Be good.”
  • “Don’t make a mess.”
  • “Do your best.”
  • “You know what to do.”
  • “Stop that.”
  • “Don’t forget.”
  • “Hurry up.”