If you’re unsettled or surprised by how your child reacted to a tragic event or crisis situation, it's important to consider a few key points.

When faced with a tragic event, children may react in ways that are unexpected or confusing. Here are some important things to keep in mind:

• Don’t assume your child is emotionally or mentally messed up: Children often process events differently than adults.
• Some events may not faze your child: If your child wasn’t directly involved or close to those affected, they might not show visible signs of distress.
• Processing time varies: Your child may need more time to fully understand and process what happened.
• Allow space for feelings: Avoid forcing a conversation about feelings if your child isn’t ready.
• Be available for future discussions: If your child doesn’t want to talk right now, let them know you’re there to listen when they are ready.